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When Your Brain Mistakes Discomfort for Danger
Most of us do not enjoy being uncomfortable. We like knowing what is going to happen. We like feeling prepared. We want conversations to go well, decisions to feel certain, relationships to feel secure, and situations to make sense. So when discomfort appears, our first reaction may be to make it disappear. We cancel the…
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The Real Reason You Need to Feel in Control
You had a plan for how the day was supposed to go. Then something changed. Someone was late. An appointment was canceled. A conversation did not go as expected. Suddenly, the schedule you carefully created no longer worked. Maybe you immediately felt irritated or anxious. Your mind started rearranging the day, searching for another solution,…




